too old for school?

I was a late bloomer.  When I graduated from high school, I wasn’t ready for college.  I wanted to play.  I wanted to party.  I wanted to live.  I wound up spending twelve years struggling from one part-time job to another.  I worked at burger joints, mini-marts, and I even did some telephone soliciting.  They were all low-paying jobs with crummy schedules.

In my late twenties I started wondering what the heck I was doing with my life.  I knew there had to be something better.  But what?

Today’s post is a guest post at BornTwoLead.  Please take some time to read the rest of Too Old for School?, and look around the BornTwoLead blog.

finding peace on the slow road to lasting change

“Destiny is not a matter of chance; it is a matter of choice. It is not a thing to be waited for, it is a thing to be achieved.”  – William Jennings Bryan

Change is not always something that happens overnight.  I’ve read the stories about those who quit their jobs on a whim and do their own thing.  They start their own business or travel to a foreign country to live out their dreams.  I love those stories.  But that’s not my story.  Sometimes change is slow.

Sometimes change takes patience and commitment to doing the same thing day in and day out.  Sometimes change is a long, slow labor of love.

Today’s post is a guest post on The Change Blog.  Please take a few moments to read the post Finding Peace on the Slow Road and browse around the blog a bit, too

- dan

the pen is the path to becoming a thought leader

I’ve never thought of myself as a leader.  I’ve never been a CEO or even a manager.  I’ve never coached sports teams, led youth groups or conducted worship services.  I’m just a teacher, a writer, and a dreamer.  Does this sound familiar?

The majority of us are followers, and chances are good that you’re one of us.  Sure, you may aspire to be a leader and perhaps you’re acting as a leader to a specific group of people, a team.  But what if I told you there’s a kind of leadership other than face-to-face leadership?  What if I said you can develop leadership skills over time that could influence thousands, even millions of people? 

Today’s post is a guest post on Joseph Lalonde’s blog on leadership.  Joe’s niche is: “Empowering young leaders with the tools to thrive in a hectic world.”  I encourage you to take a few minutes to read my post The Pen is the Path, and some of Joe’s work, too.  - dan

three easy stretches to writing a book

Writing a book is a challenge.  I know.  I’ve written two.  So what does it take to write a book?  It’s simple.  It takes consistent commitment. 

Here are my three suggestions for anyone who wants to write a book:

1. Start writing immediately:  People tend to have a thousand excuses why they can’t start writing a book.  Here’s a short list of ways not to get started:

Today’s post is a guest post at Jon Stolpe’s blog: Stretched.  Please take a few moments to check out Jon’s blog and my article, Three Easy Stretches to Writing a Book.  Ask yourself how you can stretch your own writing.

how to be a strong finisher

I’ve heard a lot of talk about getting things started lately.  Start running.  Start writing.  Start a blog.   The latest book, Start, by Jon Acuff recommends we punch fear in the face.  I agree.  The Nike slogan “Just Do It” has lent itself to a generation of athletes.   There’s nothing wrong with a little motivation for getting started.  We all need a little kick in the hind end from time to time.  But what’s it take to finish?

Today’s post is a guest post at Matt McWilliam’s blog: Failing Forward.  Take a few minutes to read the post and check out Matt’s blog.  Thanks, and enjoy!

crushed

How do we respond to tragedies such as the tornado that ripped through Oklahoma yesterday?

Where is God in all of it?  Some become angry at God after seemingly pointless disasters.  Others begin to doubt that God even exists.  I draw closer to God.

On Sunday evening I had the opportunity to listen to Shane Claiborne speak.  If you haven’t heard of Shane and his organization The Simple Way, I suggest you check them out.

At the beginning of his talk, Shane said something that stuck in my head.  He asked, “Did you ever notice that the elements of communion, wine and bread, are both foods, that to be made, have to be crushed?”

Read the rest of this post at LifeLetterCafe.

living dangerously and loving it

photoI’ve been writing a few guest posts lately and something crazy happened.  I’m double-booked today.  I have a guest post at Dan Black’s site: danblackonleadership.info.

I have another guest post at Vincent Nguyen’s site: selfstairway.com.

It’s a privilege to have the chance to write for both of these great blogs.  

Dan’s blog focuses on leadership, and my post, The Empathic Leader, discusses ways we can become better leaders by using empathy as a way of better understanding our followers.

Vincent’s blog focuses on self-improvement through self-reflection.  The post for his blog, Self Stairway, was a bit more challenging to write.  It took me a few tries, but I finally nailed it: How I Learned to Live Dangerously.  This post discusses the differences between what we often think of as living dangerously, and what it really means to live dangerously.  It might not be quite what you think.

Please take some time to read both posts.  If you’d like me to write a guest post for your blog, or if you’d like to write one for my blog, please contact me at danerickson@danerickson.net.  I’d love to work with you.

how to get your resume noticed

Creating a solid, professional resume is the first key to getting noticed by potential employers.  In order to get on the hiring manager’s desk, your resume has to be professional, flawless, and unique.  It needs to say, “Wow!  I’d like to hire a person like that.”  So how can you get your resume to the top of the stack?  Here are a few pointers:

Today I’m guest posting at Tom Dixon’s blog, MondayIsGood.com.  Tom offers solid practical career advice and I’m honored to be featured as his guest.  Read the rest of How To Get Your Resume Noticed.

writing your way toward forgiveness

I was recently offered the opportunity to be a regular contributor at the blog lifelettercafe.com.  I am honored to be a part of their team.  I wrote my first post for Life Letter Cafe today.  Take a few moments to check out the site, and read the post, Writing Your Way Toward Forgiveness, on their Life Notes Blog   I’ll be providing Life Letter Cafe more posts, a couple per month.  I’m excited to be a part of their team.

live with integrity

409640_10151005034387765_891070293_nElise Fee is a Life Mentor, Transformational Coach, Inspirational Speaker and Published Author. She helps clients to awaken, transform, empower and empassion their lives with her powerful coaching program Shift into THRIVE (TM). She recently released her first book, The Spiritual Human — a poetic guide to Life on Earth. You can connect with Elise at www.EliseOnLife.com

Certain things excite me — like reading that there is a new nonprofit group taking donations from people so it can buy debt for pennies on the dollar. But instead of “owning” the debt to make money on it, this group will abolish it. Poof! No more debt.

You may wonder how this could make a difference — but their initial goal is to eradicate over $6.6 million in personal debt! (They have raised over $300K in just two days since launching.) They don’t buy specific individuals’ debt, instead, they help free debtors at random through their campaign of mutual support, goodwill, and collective refusal to accept “the way things are.”

Imagine the impact this will have on the random people chosen to benefit from this program. Sense the feeling the contributors will have as they watch their small individual contributions gain collective power to change people’s lives. Think of the message that this communal effort (whether successful or not) will send to big banks and other financial institutions.

This is a radical concept, and one I’m sure not everyone will agree is a good idea. What excites me isn’t so much the details of the concept, but rather the oneness that it embodies — the collective taking steps to care for the individual, to change the very landscape of how “business is done,” and to model a new way of being to those staid bastions who to-date have refused to consider alternative ideas.

It also demonstrates people living from integrity. One day, someone woke up and said, “I will do something to change this system that encourages people to borrow and go into debt and then profits from keeping them there.” Now perhaps you don’t agree that this particular method is the answer, but that’s not my point.

What is so energizing about this effort is seeing people working together to create a shift, a change, a new model. For once someone does that, then the rest of us can say “Oh, I like it” or “Oh no, that isn’t the way I want it,” and it creates a dialogue, an energy around the topic. It gets us talking and thinking and moving.

Ideally, it forces us to take a look inside, at our own internal values, at whether or not we are living in integrity with our essence. What if we no longer accepted the notions that “It’s always been done that way” and “I don’t have a choice — that’s just the way it is”? What if we insisted on living from our deepest integrity, our clear, centered knowing? What do you imagine might happen in the world?

I envision small efforts here and there; and as an idea gains support and momentum, huge sea changes would happen, almost miraculously. (If you’d like an example, think of how quickly the Berlin Wall came down once the popular mood shifted.)

Knowing this, what can you do, right now, in this very moment, to live with integrity and effect change? The place to start is right where you are, in your world, in your daily life.

  • Live consciously.
  • Make each choice (no matter how small or routine) a conscious decision supported by your values and soulfulness.
  • Question when others tell you it has to be done a certain way (if that way doesn’t fit with your essential nature).
  • Look for little changes you can make.
  • Dream up alternative ideas and suggest them.

And if you’d like to share a great idea you’ve come up with, connect with others to see what support might be out there. Then watch as the ripple of your actions and choices extends out into the world. For when you live from your integrity, you are powerful beyond measure.

Questions: Do you make a point to live with integrity?  What little thing can you do today to make someone else’s life a bit easier?